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- Just cherish it all- A small personal tribute to Graham Joyce (1954-2014)
- The view from Maslow’s peak (I) – Living through a thought experiment
- The view from Maslow’s peak (II) – Going with a different sort of flow
- The view from Maslow’s Peak (III) – In my end is my beginning (a personal history)
- And Beth shall be no more- Little Women, heroines and Nora Ephron
- The bee
- On my bookshelf (II) – The evolution of self-help
- On my bookshelf (I)- Reading habits and paper vs. e-books
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- Audrey Hepburn’s Holly Golightly – Round the bend
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- The National Portrait Gallery
- Things I like (an introduction)
- Not the sheep
- 3 evidence-based ideas for a thoughtful and productive life, as learned from a simple exercise routine (with a surprise cameo from Lord Krishna!)
- Jane Austen, Free-Trait-Theorist
- The universal stories of This American Life
- The isolation wall
- One half my life is not reading books
- Always look on the bright side
- The tints that glow- Cancer and the female appearance
- Books of my childhood (III) – New Yorker humour and a woman’s search for meaninglessness
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- Books of my childhood (II)- My man Wodehouse
- Books of my childhood (I) – The Indispensable Calvin and Hobbes
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Tag Archives: self-help
The view from Maslow’s peak (I) – Living through a thought experiment
A 20th-century psychologist called Abraham Maslow developed a “hierarchy of needs” which he thought human beings had to navigate in order to feel fulfilled in their lives. He depicted it as a pyramid: At the bottom are the bare necessities … Continue reading
The view from Maslow’s peak (II) – Going with a different sort of flow
Don’t agonize about success or failure. Just do what you must do as well as you possibly can. In the process you may eventually transcend triumph and disaster. That is how to meet those two impostors. Those are the last … Continue reading
On my bookshelf (II) – The evolution of self-help
I’m terrible at art, but have recently decided to give it a go for want of things to do. Because I lack an artistic imagination, I decided to start off by drawing things I can see; and from my preferred … Continue reading
Jane Austen, Free-Trait-Theorist
Ordinarily, I would never have read Quiet- The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking by Susan Cain for two reasons, both unfair- first, I’d half-watched the TED talk and it had left me cold, and second, I … Continue reading
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